I have met and heard the tragic stories of many parents. PA is a function, by and large, of a custodial ex-partner, although some alienation can start while the couple is still together.

This blog is a story of experiences and observations of dysfunctional Family Law (FLAW), an arena pitting parent against parent, with children as the prize. Due to the gender bias in Family Law, that I have observed, this Blog has evolved from a focus solely on PA to one of the broader Family/Children's Rights area and the impact of Feminist mythology on Canadian Jurisprudence and the Divorce Industry.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

More excuses by judges when a women kills her children

Another judge making excuses for a woman who killed her two sons. Can you imagine using post-natal depression as an excuse 11 years after birth. If a man did this it would be described as brutal, violent, evil and inexcusable. That would be true but why the double standard.MJM

Justice system 'unfair and deficient'

  • Karen Kissane
  • November 24, 2008 - 8:39PM
THE father of two boys murdered by their mother has attacked defence lawyers as manipulators of an unfair justice system and backed prosecutor Jeremy Rapke's controversial stand on victims' rights.
"The system favours the accused far more than it should," David Fitchett wrote in a letter to The Age. "They have all the rights."
Mr Fitchett said his ex-wife Donna had "fooled a lot of people" with claims of mental impairment: "My life has been destroyed by the action of one person; at sentencing, all the judge could worry about was what impact jail would have on her state of mind."
He thanked Mr Rapke, "who took a chance against some odds to prosecute my ex-wife. If people like you were not in our defence system, bullying defence QCs . . . would have all the criminals set free. Somebody that is in the system has to be critical of it, as it has many deficiencies and without somebody challenging it there will never be changes made to improve it.
"The law is not untouchable and when mistakes are made somebody should be accountable. If not, then our society will keep heading in the same direction where there is always an excuse and a reason nobody is accountable for their own actions, however deplorable and despicable they may be."
Donna Fitchett gave a cocktail of sedatives to her sons Thomas, 11, and Matthew, 9, before strangling and suffocating them at their North Balwyn home in September 2005, two days after Father's Day. A court was later told she had chronic depression and had suffered postnatal depression after each child.
Four days before the killings she told her husband she was going to leave him and take the boys, but later decided she could not go on with life as a single parent. She had planned to commit suicide after killing her sons.
A jury rejected her defence of mental impairment and she was sentenced to 24 years, with a minimum of 18, in a secure psychiatric facility. She is appealing against her conviction and prosecutor Mr Rapke, QC, filed an appeal against the "manifest inadequacy" of the sentence.
Mr Rapke ignited a legal firestorm last week when he told The Age he sometimes privately counselled judges who made insensitive comments about victims from the bench. (He did this only after the trial was over.)
Chief Justice Marilyn Warren accused him of endangering the fairness of the criminal justice system. Prominent Melbourne QC Robert Richter accused Mr Rapke of cheap shots, playing politics and taking on the role of judge as well as prosecutor.
For help or information call Suicide Helpline on 1300 651 251, Lifeline on 131 114, or visit beyondblue.org.au
My life has been destroyed by the action of one person.DAVID FITCHETT, crime victim The following is another case, in Canada, of a female killing a child. Although not the biological mother it follows a pattern where biological mothers do kill and abuse children at a rate much higher than biological fathers. It appears the judge has saw through the facade put up by the defense.

Edmonton foster mother found guilty of manslaughter

Last Updated: Saturday, November 29, 2008 | 10:54 PM MT

An Edmonton foster mother covered her mouth and broke down in tears after a jury found her guilty of manslaughter in the death of a three-year-old boy in her care.

The verdict was handed down late Saturday afternoon, following two days of deliberations and a five-week trial.

The 34-year-old woman, who cannot be identified, was charged with second-degree murder after the child died in January 2007 of brain injuries. She was, however, found guilty of the lesser charge of manslaughter.

The Crown argued during her trial that she abused the child repeatedly in the month leading up to his death.

The prosecution's key witness, a nanny, testified the boy had a bed-wetting problem and that the foster mother left him in a cold, unheated garage on several occasions, including on the night he died.

Nanny heard screams

The nanny also testified she heard screaming and a thumping noise the night the boy died.

The Crown argued the boy died from a head injury caused by the foster mother and that she made up a story suggesting the boy displayed self-abusive behaviour and died because of an injury he did to himself.

The defence countered that the foster mother loves children and never subjected the child to abuse.

Defence lawyer Brian Beresh maintained the boy died when he leapt from his foster mother's arms and hit his head on a toilet in the bathroom of her house.

Beresh said his client will be appealing the verdict.

"This is one of the strongest defence cases that I have ever mounted or been involved in," he said.

Sentencing is expected to take place sometime in January.

Comments on the jailing of civil rights protester Jolly Stanesby of New Fathers For Justice

The following are the comments on NF4J http://users4.smartgb.com/g/g.php?a=s&i=g44-23174-53&m=all&p=1 with respect to Jolly Stanesby being jailed for a peaceful civil rights protest on the roof of the feminist Deputy Leader of the socialist party in the UK. She and her partner have both been alleged to have some underhanded dealings and her feminist lap dog (poodle) partner Jack Dromey has been branded "lazy and stupid" by Labour insiders... as the donations scandal continued to rock the deputy leader." See the whole article here http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-499510/Knives-Labours-golden-couple-Harriet-Harman-Jack-Dromey.html#comments.
Welcome to New Fathers 4 Justice's guestbook Messages of support for Jolly

Please leave a message of support for Jolly Stanesby We will forward all messages to him in prison You can write to him direct if you like Jolly Stanesby Prison number WR8198 HMP Wormwood Scrubs P.O. Box 757 Du Cane Road London W12 OAE Tel 020 8588 3200 Fax 020 8588 3201 I have received a letter from Jolly today 21 November 2008.

In it he sends his thanks for your support & kind words. He has also asked me to forward a message to you all which you can read here

Total 601 visitors and 158 messages in this guestbook. Last message was posted at 2008-11-22 21:37:13.

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Now listing all messages!
Date: 2008-11-22 21:37:13
Name: David Quine
Number: 158
Well done, hang in their, some one needs to further the cause of fathers that have been shafted by modern society. Free Jolly Stanesby!

Date: 2008-11-22 13:09:12
Name: Dave Chick
Location: LUFC
Number: 157
Thoughts are with you Jol, Good speaking to you recently. Stay strong mate, They're all low life scum as you know, who are doing this to our kids (and us). Respect DAVE spiderman CHICK

Date: 2008-11-22 04:24:56
Name: Dante D'Anthony
Web: http://talesfromthepandoranage.blogspot....
Location: Miami Florida USA
Number: 156
Rock on guys, stand your ground. Civilization depends on it. The Feminazis must be stopped. You're starting something that will save the West from the insanity that deprives men of their rights.

Date: 2008-11-21 22:05:00
Name: pharrison
Location: york
Number: 155
freedom was the voice of william wallace freedom to see your children is ure voice and the voice of all fathers who are so cruely denied access to there children by idiots in the court room and idiots in parliment god bless you for fighting a good cause the judges and mps are the criminals that should be locked up not you my friend !!! be strong were thinking off you !

Date: 2008-11-21 14:09:18
Name: Mike
Location: Hamburg, Germany
Number: 154
The way of the wicked is an abomination to the Lord: he that follows justice is beloved by him. Prov 15:12 Jolly, don't expect justice from the unjust.

Date: 2008-11-21 09:50:15
Name: Ed
Location: Scotland
Number: 153
RESPECT to you! Thanks for keeping up the fight for fathers. Ed [father of 6]

Date: 2008-11-21 08:13:46
Name: president torney
Location: melbourne australia
Number: 152
dont waste your time repeating what we all know. understand only one thing. when they are as afraid of us as we are of them ... our children will be free. dont go on with all this rubbish. nobody is listening. nobody cares. tattoo the word NO on your arm and write it on your banners. stop repaeting old cliches. remember ghandi. one word is all the scum need to understand. NO! watch mel gibsons brave heart and the patriot. thats all a father needs. then stand and look the scum in the eye and say only one word ... NO! write it on the walls, print it on your t shirt, hold it high on your banners. say it in a low and determined tone so that the scum can understand ...NO! explain to those who have not suffered the abuse that we intend to jail the scum for life. no ifs, no buts. every dirty little low life lawyer, every abusive judge, every dirty little politician who had their hand in the pie of mysery. jailed for life. JUST SAY NO! nothing else is needed. watch the scum fill their nappies/diapers as they realise that the time is drawing near. dont be nice. dont be agressive. BE A REAL FATHER AND SAY ...NO!

Date: 2008-11-20 17:41:18
Name: Eddiegoldtooth
Location: london
Number: 151
Im doing all i can for ya blokey, you will hear us on Saturday !!! chin up, buttocks clenched and tongue out !!! See ya sooon

Date: 2008-11-20 13:22:50
Name: T. Jurriaans
Location: the Netherlands
Number: 150
Keep it up, Sir! you had to be punished by "law" for not accepting this unbearable situation. I wouldn't dare as much as you do. Respect should be your lot and not imprisonment! but you and we all know that your are fighting for the good cause!

Date: 2008-11-19 20:06:49
Name: BWhitehead
Location: Nashville, TN, USA
Number: 149
I salute you sir! Things are no different in USA. Here, a Father is nothing more than a part-time babysitter and a paycheck. Mostly,a paycheck!!! Here's hoping that the world will wake up and change the barbaric laws it has created. May your time be short and may it rock the world!

Date: 2008-11-19 15:31:08
Name: Bob A.
Number: 148
Jolly, Thanks for being so dedicated and courageous. Free Jolly Stanesby!

Date: 2008-11-19 15:11:24
Name: Tim Line
Web: http://f4jtimline.blogspot.com/
Location: Trowbridge, Wilts, UK
Number: 147
Hi Jolly, I was away when they sent you down. Frankly, I cannot believe that they considered a peaceful, non-violent protest such as yours and Mark's worthy of a prison sentence. The damage that this government has done to 100's of thousands of the nations children by ignoring us and refusing to address the injustices going on, can only be described as State sponsored child abuse. It is people like Harmen that should be laguishing in a cell, not you. Putting you in jail just goes to show what we are up against with this government. Whilst I am sorry that they jailed you, I think they have completely under estimated the strength of feeling over what they have done to you and the issues that we are all fighting for and your sacrifice will not be wasted. I have a huge amount of respect for you and what you have done over the years. I also appreciate your friendship and the advice you gave me earlier this year with my protest. Continued the fight in Westminster yesterday. Change will eventually come. We will not be ignored forever. Don't let the screws get you down. Take care, good luck, see you soon, Tim Line

Date: 2008-11-19 01:11:01
Name: sunny
Number: 146
Shame on England for slaving over their own men citizen who once brought them pride, honor and heritage. This is how England treats their own citizen if they are born boys, grow up men and become dads. Shame on the entire country. I wonder that is why I hear that England is going to dogs. Wake up and fix your laws and give equal rights to your own citizen first before talking about global player for bringing justice to the other parts of world. If you can't produce children with out men, then at the least give them rights to meet their children. What is wrong in your brain & laws.

Date: 2008-11-18 23:38:53
Name: Don, the 14%er
Web: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCP-TX-Gra...
Location: Sherman, Texas USA
Number: 145
The Voice of Plymouth (United Kingdom), The Herald ran my letter November 18 in "Your Say" at http://www.thisispl ymouth.co. uk/news/Good/ article-483678- detail/article. html regarding http://www.thisispl ymouth.co. uk/news/Ibybridg e-proteser- jailed/article- 469337-detail/ article.html Good for him Tuesday, November 18, 2008, 18:25 YOU can jail Jolly Stanesby but you cannot stop his message. Children need both parents. I look up to this man – and not only because of his rooftop protests. "A father is for life, not just conception", his banner read. It is time courts around the world heeded his message. DON MATHIS Sherman, Texas, USA

Date: 2008-11-18 17:54:11
Name: steven deluca
Location: Mendocino CA
Number: 144
A supporter. The courts want to arrest you for protesting when they should be arresting others for not protesting the crimes of state against fathers and families.

Date: 2008-11-18 17:51:32
Name: Mark Bogan
Web: http://f4j.ca
Location: Yellowknife, Canada
Number: 143
It is shameful that the Brits have opted for you to spend time behind bars. When will your Government acknowledge that the Civil Courts are completly broken down. Is this what they desire for the future of our children. It takes a few brave men to highlight the injustices fathers face every day. You are one of those brave men. I can only hope they release you soon, so the UK can get back to work. Keep the faith, never give-up. You are a hero to so many children.

Date: 2008-11-18 17:33:43
Name: Paul G.
Location: Edmonton, Canada
Number: 142
Those who stand for our united position to have our children in our lives --be one to hold your head high sir ! I was stripped of my daughter, who was abducted out of the country for over 3 yrs by her mother who alienated our child against the father, then extorted the conditions of her return when she lost the case I fought on Her Turf !!!

Date: 2008-11-18 17:20:06
Name: L. Steven Beene II
Location: Alaska
Number: 141
Jolly, God bless you sir. I am not a father denied his RIGHT to see his child ... I am the man who was a child denied a loving relationship with my father for 2 decades because my mother had more spite against my father than a realization of how much it hurt me to not have him in my life. When I got to know him 21 years later he and I got along from the first day. He's a wonderful man and I treasure my time he and I have spent together since then. Don't give up Jolly, what you are doing is vitally important. Be well, sir. I hope when this message finds you it finds you strong and determined. Steven

Date: 2008-11-18 17:17:00
Name: Stephen Gee
Location: South Korea
Number: 140
Hello Jolly, Bless you for the courageous stand you have taken. I am one of countless men who have been stripped of my children due to false accusations, a corrupt misandric 'family court' system. Hold your head high mate. You're no criminal, but a hero indeed!

Date: 2008-11-18 17:07:04
Name: neil finney
Location: hong kong
Number: 139
oconnor said we will not stop pushing no matter the personal cost.then he called this momentum suicide.new leaders please. nf4j. rf4j.

Date: 2008-11-18 17:01:21
Name: Steven Kemp
Location: Buffalo, NY USA
Number: 138
Jolly, Keep up your spirits - You have the courage to help fatherless children by keeping this sociopath aspect of our societies public! Keep healthy Keep happy Steve Kemp

Date: 2008-11-18 16:53:26
Name: Robert Genco
Location: Boton MA USA
Number: 137
Jolly good show! we need more men /fathers like you it sends the right message to our sons and daughters. we are all created equal under god but the law is not true to this basic fact and they are having a geat hardship realizing this fact.

Date: 2008-11-18 15:06:08
Name: Marty Probst
Location: Edina, Minnesota, USA
Number: 136
Good luck and thanks for fighting the good fight for Dads and children! Marty

Date: 2008-11-18 14:56:50
Name: Mark Smith
Location: Jamaica
Number: 135
If men are so bad that they cant be fathers to their children, why dont we get rid of them all together. Lets banish men to some descreet part of the world and allow women to rule. Lets get a female PM and female everything. Lets send them to battle and have them protect us. Let us fly in the face of nature and give in to its natural design. There is no space for fathers in England. Short live England.

Date: 2008-11-18 14:28:51
Name: Mohamed
Number: 134
I salute brave men like you who take all the risks at a great cost to themselves to change the world. The rest of us are too scared to fight back.

Date: 2008-11-18 13:31:54
Name: Ken
Location: Canada
Number: 133
Keep up the good fight. Thanks for taking a stand.

Date: 2008-11-18 13:23:25
Name: TAMARA
Location: London
Number: 132
JUSTICE 4 JOLLY! Hey! What a Bugger! Relax, You will be back soon... With Regards & Respect Always from Tamara x Barabara & Edmund send their Regards & Best Wishes to you too x x

Date: 2008-11-18 12:42:44
Name: david wood
Location: Washington D.C. USA
Number: 131
hang in there my brother. you are a hero to many men and women!!!

Date: 2008-11-18 12:22:39
Name: John Burke
Location: Canada
Number: 130
You are a modern day hero and those of us too afraid to fight back salute you.

Date: 2008-11-18 11:31:41
Name: Perseus slayer of the Gorgon
Number: 129
One day people may mention you, Jolly as someone who changed society like Emily Pankhurst did, hope it is not too boring in there !

Date: 2008-11-18 10:24:04
Name: Randy
Location: London
Number: 128
Jolly, It is a travesty that you are imprisoned for standing up for the rights of the child you l raised to have a close loving relationship with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your fight for the Equal Rights of Fathers in the UK Family Courts, is of massive importance, especially in view of the Murder of "Baby P" at the hands of his mother and her "boyfriends". Equal Rights for Fathers in Family Courts, and in the UK family are needed. Your sacrifice should not go un-noticed by this callous government with blood of innocent children on its hands, children who were denied the love care and protection of their fathers, due to institutionionalised discrimination against fathers in every corner of this government's adminsitration, from Social Services, NHS, GP's, Police, Council Community Workers, to CAFCASS, all the way to the Family Courts, High Court, and Court of Appeal. Children NEED both parents! Be strong, our cause is right, Children will win the right to the love and care of their fathers.

Date: 2008-11-18 09:08:44
Name: Mike M
Location: Quebec, Canada
Number: 127
For all the fathers who do not have anyone to stand for them in family court your courage will inspire them to stand strongly knowing others will even go to prison for what they believe the wrong in the justice system GIVE THEM HELL Jolly!

Date: 2008-11-18 07:45:25
Name: Craig Fisher
Location: New Zealand
Number: 126
You Jolly are in my view, a true hero of our times , not that I expect you care for the title. It is allways unfortunate that actions such as yours are nesserary to bring attention to injustice's in the world, such as those faced fathers and their children today. I expect as a loving father that you will not roll over and just go away, be made to heal like a good dog. No Sir, not as a loving father, nor indeed as a man would I expect this from you. Contrary to feminist's lie's, men as a whole are incredibly honorable and good-natured, but stand between loving father's and their children, well...that is just asking for very big trouble. As a father myself, thankyou you Jolly, for both your stance and you actions.

Date: 2008-11-18 07:33:53
Name: Paul Shepherd
Web: http://www.findthesilahchildren.com
Location: Valencia, California, USA
Number: 125
Jolly, thank you for standing up for the rights of men all around the world. It means even more to me as a divorced father that is about to enter the fight of my life to stop my ex-wife from taking my children thousands of miles away to another state and beyong by ability to offer regular loving contact. What makes this remarkable to me is that although I am living in the USA now, I am originally raised in Plympton, Plymouth, U.K. I went to Chaddlewood school and Plympton Secondary. I heard of your story through Glen Sacks' newsletter. To everyone, Let's help free Jolly! Write, call or make your voices heard!! It's the least we can do for him. Jolly, your daughter will know what you have been through for her and will love and respect you even more for it later. You will be her hero. As to how she will feel towards the mother that has kept you away from her... too bad the notion that children need the love of both parents escapes some people.

Date: 2008-11-18 06:10:24
Name: Vince
Number: 124
Keep the faith, Jolly. Your kid will know you did everything possible for her.

Date: 2008-11-18 05:51:41
Name: Empathic Listener
Location: New Zealand
Number: 123
It's as bad here with our de-Family Court. Family Law is based almost entirely on feminist preference and propaganda. Criminal law is following suit. We admire your protests and their peaceful approach and sensible spokespeople. Our hearts are with you. We have the Republic of NZ Party, the only NZ political party that cares about men as well as women. Keep up the good work!

Date: 2008-11-18 04:42:52
Name: Friends of Maddie
Number: 122
Why MR harriet dont have simpathy at all for all the fathers that for no good reason dont see their kids ? He talked how he love his house and how HE RAISED his kids in his house. Geez, can someone ask if other men dont have the same right as him ? What lack of solidarity, and no respect for other ones human rights, and children rights, MR Harriet. You did a bad job, in your interview. You expose yourself, as the person you are. Thanks for that, Jolly Stanesby

Date: 2008-11-18 04:35:25
Name: wil
Location: australia
Number: 121
The hardship of your brief stay in prison will be nothing compared to what you've already gone through not being able to see your daughter more regularly, and in your heroic efforts known around the world to try to bring attention to this issue. They think 2 months in prison will stop you?

Date: 2008-11-18 04:26:46
Name: Brett Hughes
Location: Indianapolis, IN
Number: 120
There is nothing "Family" about family court. Never stop, Never yield. You are a FATHER.. and your childrens children will know this.

Date: 2008-11-18 04:05:05
Name: Martin
Location: Omaha, NE USA
Number: 119
Thank you for standing up for us Fathers. You do this for our children on both sides of the pond.

Date: 2008-11-18 04:02:18
Name: Carlos Rojas
Location: California
Number: 118
As a single father of two. I support you! I just wish I would have had the balls to get some kind of publicity for fathers rights. "FREE JOLLY". Fight on!

Date: 2008-11-18 00:37:54
Name: Michael Claymore
Location: Sydney, Australia
Number: 117
What the court has done to you is atrocious and shows how little concern they have for actual justice, as opposed to the law. Hang in there, mate, free-thinking men all around the world are behind you.

Date: 2008-11-17 23:31:15
Name: Chris
Web: http://www.mensrepresentativeparty.com/
Location: UK
Number: 116
Jolly, on behalf of the Men's Representative Party, I would like to thank you for your tireless efforts in pursuit of justice for fathers. Stay strong.

Date: 2008-11-17 23:23:43
Name: martin swash
Location: Middlesbrough
Number: 115
I hope that it is not too bad in there and you will soon be back "In Action"

Date: 2008-11-17 22:27:00
Name: Christian J.
Location: Australia
Number: 114
Only when the feminist's "anti-everything male attitude" is squashed will we see any benefit for Fathers. Today's society caters only to women and so do the deadbeat politicians. They are the one that should be kicked from office or better still jailed for their blatant sexism..

Date: 2008-11-17 21:22:12
Name: Robert Henson
Location: Harrison Arkansas USA
Number: 113
Great work Jolly. There resides a true hero under the costume. You are in my prayers may God bless you.

Date: 2008-11-17 21:19:11
Name: rajesh bhagat
Location: cardiff
Number: 112
Hi jolly, I am a father whose only child has been abducted out of UK and is very empathic to men issues. I support you and pray for your well being.

Date: 2008-11-17 20:27:13
Name: kevin
Location: herts
Number: 111
keep your chin up jolly meet you on the out. thanks for everything you have done keeps me motivated.please keep helping our children they need you kev

Date: 2008-11-17 20:10:21
Name: chris seven
Location: Columbus Ohio
Number: 110
Fight for your rights as a father. Until the day comes when equal rights for men with the children are the same as women. More power to you.

Date: 2008-11-17 19:55:32
Name: Michel Miousse
Location: Québec
Number: 109
Don't give up Jolly. We need people like you. Someday these monsters are all gonna pay for this. Mike

Date: 2008-11-17 16:19:09
Name: G Pickford
Location: Stoke-On-Trent
Number: 108
Whats being done to you is a complete utter disgrace we have just rememberd the dead of two world wars fought in the name of freedom and here we see a bloke fighting for the right to see his kids it completly stinks no politicion or some high profile news editor or reporter will not condem this judicial system for putting a guy in prison for trying to see his kids disgusting.

Date: 2008-11-17 14:16:43
Name: POIUYT
Web: http://www.standyourground.com
Number: 107
Harriet Harm-Men, Julie Bindel, Cathy Elliot and their leading and elite male sponsors want to silence yourself Jolly. And they also wish to silence the movement for justice you represent. They wish women to continue to be able to use inocent children as subject matter for social justice claims against the childrens fathers and wider society. Only in this way are they able to further perpetuate their mendacity for power and profit. Many a child is being tortured, maimed and killed by their mothers in the absence of their fathers whilst you're jailled Jolly. That is with the blessing of Harriet Harm-Men, Gordon Brown and the social services "SS". All ordinary males in society await your freedom Jolly. For the sake of sons, grandsons and great grandsons whom face a life of hell in the absence of their fathers.

Date: 2008-11-17 07:57:47
Name: "Angry Harry"
Web: http://www.angryharry.com/
Number: 106
Thank you Jolly.

Date: 2008-11-17 07:30:35
Name: filip
Location: South Africa
Number: 105
Keep your faith, you have already won the battle. The law has documented , by imprisoning you, they have made you an Icon. From here and from the rest of the world we know what you representing, a true an unconditional love of a father for our children. History has shown , for whatever we stand for righteousness of humanity, the battles are won. What you stand for will not be negotiable. Fathers love there children just as much, if not more. We support you all the way , Jolly you have made history contributing and adding value towards our advancement in human kind.. We hear you!!

Date: 2008-11-17 06:57:04
Name: Ollie
Location: Herefordshire
Number: 104
Its about time the UK govt actually listened to us fathers as sometimes it is hard for us to see our children when our exs use blackmail etc to make our children accept others who try to take our place in out childrens lives. keep up the good work :)

Date: 2008-11-17 05:38:07
Name: mary
Location: dartford kent
Number: 103
Hello Jolly.Thankyou for making a stand,you truly are an inspiration.For far too long now,this government has supported and indeed instigated the injustices that go on,hh should realise now that there are those willing to object publicly. WELL DONE YOU!

Date: 2008-11-16 23:22:41
Name: Heidi Petersen
Web: http://mothersrights.meetup.com/4/
Location: Canada
Number: 102
I think major changes need to be made in the courts. You are very brave to take a stand like this. You will help draw attention to many parents who are being judged against unfairly in court. I am one as well and I truly understand what it feels like to be separated from your children for reasons beyond your control. I feel your pain no matter what your situation. Please join our group. Fathers are welcome too...Heidi

Date: 2008-11-16 22:06:31
Name: poppy
Location: gower
Number: 101
WELL DONE MR JOLLY!!!! LOVE FROM DADDYS LITTLE PRECIOUS. POPPY (Nigel's Daughter)

Date: 2008-11-16 21:21:04
Name: Michael & Beth Cox
Location: New Forest
Number: 100
Hi Jolly - take a tip from one old lag to another: look on prison as a retreat; it's cheaper than Champneys and has got fewer alcoholics than The Priory. Relax and enjoy! You've got no excuse now not to read all those Booker prize-winners that you just haven't had the time for. You are an inspiration to all fathers, to all MEN. Any man can be a father but it takes a real man to be a Father 4 Justice! All our love and much respect Michael & Beth xx

Date: 2008-11-16 20:53:16
Name: paula
Web: http://justamum.wordpress.com/
Location: uk
Number: 99
Heartfelt thanks for raising awareness with regards to the evil corrupt family courts....Its indeed criminal to imprison any man that seeks only truth and justice, but hey thats the UK for you jolly. Keep your chin up, We Will Have Justice....especially with brave men such as yourself taking a stand. Everyones thinkin about you.....

Date: 2008-11-16 19:27:05
Name: Linda McDermott
Web: http://www.Lyndamac.com
Location: Luton
Number: 98
Jolly, thank you for raising awareness about the Family courts. I am so sorry to hear that you have been arrested for the HH roof top demo,however she needed a wake up call as she fell asleep on the job ,and forgot what she promised. We will change laws if we maintain the pressure from both fathers for justice & mothers for justice we will not be divided. We will stand united in this campaign for the future of our children. Best wishes I hope you get out soon.

Date: 2008-11-16 14:01:02
Name: Peter Danby
Location: "FEMIZED HEREFORD"
Number: 97
"Jolly your a insperation to us all" W.D Wilson was allways proud that you never give in. Locking you up has just made things worse for this crap goverment!!! "LET THE BATTLE PROCEED GLADIATOR"

Date: 2008-11-16 13:22:04
Name: Mark Harris
Location: Plymouth
Number: 96
"Those who make peaceful revolution impossible make violent revolution inevitable", John F Kennedy, 1917 - 1963. Pity creatures like Judge Wickham are too ignorant to heed such words of wisdom. Jolly, chin up mate, the campaign is still strong, in fact what they have done to you seems to be bringing more people together. I'm buying you a pint up The Sportsmans as soon as you are out! Mark Harris.

Date: 2008-11-16 12:11:41
Name: Feckless
Web: http://antimisandry.com
Location: Germany
Number: 95
Dear Jolly, thank you for doing what you did. You are a good example for all of us and I hope men will follow your example. I feel that change is comming. Greets Stefan

Date: 2008-11-16 03:09:34
Name: Brad C.
Location: London, Ontario
Number: 94
Hi Jolly, I am sorry to hear that you got the sentence that you did, since it seems a little outrageous. Kudos to guys like you who have had such an impact for all of the rest of us who follow you. Brad

Date: 2008-11-16 03:02:58
Name: Percy
Number: 93
Jolly, you are a Knight of the Men's Movement. An honoured man. An heroic man. The community at www.anti-misandry.com are all with you. Raise your sword as a Standard in that place of incarceration. You have an army of men in waiting there, many of whom will listen to you; some who know they are in for sound reason and some in for their own revolt against the revolting society we have had thrust upon us. They will all recognise you for the Political Prisoner that you are. Some will be fathers. ALL will be sons. They will listen. Teach them. Lead them. They are men. They need the Man that you are.

Date: 2008-11-16 01:15:21
Name: dave perry(anon)
Location: london
Number: 92
well done my friend, i have never met you but i am going through the same shit, my job does not allow me to be involved with this. i say good luck and we are on your side, MANY OF US !

Date: 2008-11-16 00:51:15
Name: Kim
Web: http://www.equalbutdifferent.blogspot.co...
Location: USA
Number: 91
Jolly, your bravery and determination have been an inspiration for fathers and those who fight for the rights of fathers everywhere. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Date: 2008-11-16 00:41:45
Name: Perseus
Web: http://honornetwork.com
Location: Japan
Number: 90
Gumbate Jolly-san!

Date: 2008-11-15 20:49:06
Name: Benoit Leroux
Web: http://carbanzo.com
Location: F4J Quebec
Number: 89
Good work Jolly. If you are inside it is because you did hit the heart of the injustice system. It does bleed actually. How long will it takes before real changes happen?... My own court hearing for having climb the bridge in Montreal in 2005 will start in december, unless the judge decides to stop the proceeding or recuse himself as asked. In jail you are probably considered a hero as I did expecience myself having been arrested a feew days. We are all behind you.

Date: 2008-11-15 18:58:55
Name: TREVOR J WOOTTON
Location: LEEDS UK
Number: 88
Hi mate sorry i wernt with u in person but i am in spirit along with everyone else. i too have fought in the courts for ten years and my kids saying they want to live with me but the liars of both Caff Cass and social services lie and lied despite mother admiitting hitting them she got them back. NSPCC claim to care for kids but if people put money towards F4J we wouldnt need such an organisation. same with pudsey bear. stop contributing to them people. i,m spreading the3 word to many of my customers mate that many single parents man or woman dont have any parental responsibility rights if they have their kid even for a day let alone a weekend and should god forbid if owt happens to them that parent has no say in authorising medical treatment and or drugs or medicine. think about it people. good luck fella and be rest assured you,ll be ok in their as many of them have kids themselves even the prison officers reading your mail. contributions are on the way.

Date: 2008-11-15 18:24:53
Name: Jeff Cefalo
Location: Florida USA
Number: 87
Jolly, Thanks for standing up for all of us. You are an inspiration. It's a shame and tragic that the judicial system wears blinders and has failed every facet of their own morals,integrity and our trust. The family courts have perverted the law as well as them self and have become a WMD,devouring families and especially fathers who have an unalienable right to their own posterity. Family courts have become the Evil that they were suppose to protect us from. It is true, it is a serious fact, and it was your moral duty to call the attention of it to all. Life is a gift from God,and that gift is physical,intellectual,moral life and gift of our own Posterity. "Semper Vigilo, Fortis, Paratus et Fidelis" "Always Vigilant","Always Brave" "Ready And Faithful" I Salute You,

Date: 2008-11-15 18:02:30
Name: Hermil LeBel
Web: http://bisbille101.blogspot.com
Location: Canada
Number: 86
Extract from the UN Charter of Rights : Whereas it is essential, if man is not to be compelled to have recourse, as a last resort, to rebellion against tyranny and oppression, that human rights should be protected by the rule of law... Against tyranny, we must react, even if it means breaking unjust laws and go to jail for it. The cancer of femifaschism is gaining ground over the world. Staying Idle is not an option. Jolly is a proud hero and has my best regards

Date: 2008-11-15 17:05:59
Name: Greg
Location: UK
Number: 85
Jolly, you represent the hearts and minds of Dad's across the world, I think we should nic name you Braveheart. Our thoughts are with you.

Date: 2008-11-15 14:16:40
Name: David Thomas
Web: http://www.directactiondads.com
Location: Manchester
Number: 84
One of, if not the most prevalent activist has been targeted as the scapegoat and is now a political prisoner. They attack us when we are at our weakest and the disbanding and forming of different groups has served to expose campaigners to the tyranny of the UK government. As always we have needed justice for our kids, and justice for their fathers who are victimised, disenfranchised and abused by the State machine which disrespects the father-child relationships. Well done Jolly, a good man, and a brave activist who has done more for this campaign than most. Lets hope the fathers can unite in a voice of solidarity to expose this extra injustice you personally have faced.

Date: 2008-11-15 12:39:26
Name: jollys bitch
Location: everywhere
Number: 83
jolly i love you, katie xx

Date: 2008-11-15 12:03:11
Name: Deyan
Location: London
Number: 82
Jolly you are a hero...take care...we all think about you.

Date: 2008-11-15 11:53:22
Name: Amfortas
Location: Australia
Number: 81
Jolly, Sir, all across the world MRAs are seeing your bravery and fortitude. We are immensly proud of your leadership and selfless efforts. The prayers of the Knackerd old Knight of the MRM and many others are with you. Amfortas.

Date: 2008-11-15 10:17:55
Name: Dave Chick
Location: sussex
Number: 80
Hello geezer, i think i will get my spiderman costume out again all the best mate.

Date: 2008-11-15 10:16:27
Name: paul parmenter
Location: UK
Number: 79
Jolly you are a political prisoner, nothing less and nothing more. Your only crime is standing up for the children being abused by this detestable government and the corrupt legal system. You have a huge amount of support, your story has gone round the world and back. Rest assured that all decent people are on your side.

Date: 2008-11-15 10:11:57
Name: rebecca GORECKI
Location: dagenham
Number: 78
hi jolly its becky eddies daughter i heard tht u r in prison im so sorry i cant wait to see u and rosie again i havent seen u in ages, i remember when u and dad were on the royal courts of justice!!! im proud of uuuuu from becky xxxxx

Date: 2008-11-15 10:07:56
Name: edward goldentooth
Number: 77
THE ONLY WAY IS UP BABY !

Date: 2008-11-15 07:51:33
Name: Steve
Web: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/fem...
Location: New Jersey-USA
Number: 76
Thank you Jolly for your bravery. I admire what you did. Wish there was a way we could do something like that where I live. I'd love to dedicate my life to fighting these PC inhumans if I could afford to do it. I'm a good writer, good on the telephone and with people...so if anyone reading this has any ideas, feel free to send me an email. I have a degree in History-these PC are the Nu Nazis. Jolly I read about your exploits on Yahoo Answers-Gender and Women's Studies. Us men were trying to talk to feminists but they just called us names, said we had small private parts, had mommy issues, that MRAs were hostile/sexist and they got our accounts on Yahoo Answers deleted. Please stay strong. If only we could all unite more... Steve

Date: 2008-11-15 02:56:50
Name: Earl Fibish
Location: Denver, Colorado USA
Number: 75
Dear Jolly, I'm sorry to see another good man being sent to jail for protesting the corrupt system. I applaud your courage and bravery. May God be with you now, and after you get out of jail.

Date: 2008-11-15 02:40:44
Name: ken krajewski
Web: http://www.fatherwithoutchristmas.com
Location: connecticut,usa
Number: 74
hang in there f4j brother,we hear you in the usa,one day we will have a national,and world wide march to be heard,stay strong

Date: 2008-11-15 02:37:55
Name: Ken Maddox
Web: http://www.oneangryman.com
Location: Mississippi Gulf Coast
Number: 73
You have fought the fight now just keep the faith. We are praying for your immediate release.

Date: 2008-11-15 01:43:23
Name: Rob Robinson
Web: http://www.f4jcanada.com
Location: Vancouver BC Canada
Number: 72
Jolly, you are truly a hero in the fight for truth, justice and equality in family law. You should be honored, not incarcerated for your direct actions on behalf of us all. My best to you and yours: Rob Robinson - Canada's First Batman - National Action Coordinator - Fathers 4 Justice Canada

Date: 2008-11-14 23:43:24
Name: Shelly Barreras
Location: New Mexico, USA
Number: 71
I am and will continue praying for your release Jolly. You are a hero to so many of us. God bless you for what you do for Fathers everywhere. Godspeed Jolly!

Date: 2008-11-14 22:34:44
Name: Mark Harris
Location: Plymouth
Number: 70
I've noticed a 'FREE JOLLY' painting campaign start in Devon today; buildings, bridges, road signs, etc, all painted with 'FREE JOLLY' on it. Let's hope it spreads throughout the country, get this injustice exposed, make it THE talking point across the UK, hear what I'm saying everyone; get off your arses Dads and don those painting brushes! Mark Harris (the other protester!).

Date: 2008-11-14 20:51:34
Name: Vern Mills
Location: Georgia USA
Number: 69
Reading back through this field... this reads like the [ Who's Who ] of Fathers Rights Advocates. Nige, Mark, Harry (GREAT SITE!!!), Stan, Ray, Jeremy... your personal tales I am familiar with. Asif, F4J S Africa- hey awesome to hear we've a chapter there, way to go! As before, hang in there Jolly. As a man whose opinion I did eventually come to respect said: "Illegitimus Non Carborundum", and stand fast... the truth will, in time, prevail.

Date: 2008-11-14 20:27:22
Name: Jeremy Swanson
Location: Ottawa Canada
Number: 68
Support for your herosim as evidenced here and elsewhere is proof that people recognize and understand your courage. What you have done Jolly is stand up to tyranny of the worst kind. We have seen this all before in history and only brave men change it in the end. The history books are full of heroes and you have joined the ranks. As we move forward to confront the tyrants who take our children, our property, our careers and our lives you name will be on the top pf the roll. I am thinking of somehow getting an image of you tranposed on to that famous Lord Kitchener "Britain needs you" poster and using that to draw people into the fight. You are my personal hero too bud. Let no-one take away from you what you have done. You are an example to us all. I just wish more people had the balls to stand up the way you have. We will in time jail your gaolers and those who did this to you and so many of our brothers.

Date: 2008-11-14 19:42:48
Name: Maurice and Sherri Barnett
Web: http://www.deadbeatdadsassociation.co.uk
Location: Lancashire
Number: 67
Your doing a great job there pity the Justice system is so corrupt that they send you to prison because you want to see your kids and the only way to do that is to protest on some hormonal womans rooftop who is so blind or maybe too corrupt to change the system. It makes me laugh when they would rather go through all this than change the system. Lets keep hounding this corrupt government

Date: 2008-11-14 19:26:00
Name: Henry da Massa
Location: Manchester, UK
Number: 66
keep on keeping on soldier. its the good fight as you well know. respect.

Date: 2008-11-14 19:20:25
Name: Teri Stoddard
Web: http://www.jugsforjustice.org
Location: California
Number: 65
hi Jolly, good on you for your undying devotion to truth, justice and equality. can you hear our shouts of support from America? I wish you well. looking forward to having you on the outside. teri stoddard, queen of equality

Date: 2008-11-14 18:33:14
Name: Luis carreira
Web: http://www.centrooptical.com
Location: Toronto , Canada
Number: 64
Jolly, I'm a new member and I would like to send my support to you. Stay strong.

Date: 2008-11-14 17:53:58
Name: David Sultan
Location: Montreal
Number: 63
Truly a corrupt system! Hang in there, you did it for Truth & Love. Nothing can beat that out of you now.

Date: 2008-11-14 16:59:04
Name: John Kimble
Number: 62
Jolly you are an inspiration to anyone out there who believes in equality and standing up against what is wrong. I wish I had the courage to be like you.

Date: 2008-11-14 16:49:39
Name: Scott Hopkins
Location: Michigan, USA
Number: 61
Blessed are you when you are persecuted for righteousness. Stay strong. Truth will triumph over tyranny.

Date: 2008-11-14 16:20:48
Name: Les White
Location: Brandon,Man. Canada
Number: 60
Hi Jolly, Hold your head up high,we are all behind you and support you 100 percent. Togeather we will beat this corrupt money grabbing justice system

Date: 2008-11-14 16:03:04
Name: Ron de Mouilpied
Location: Australia
Number: 59
John you are now in the 'Hall of Fame' for serving the best interests of our future generations so admirably. Congratulations!

Date: 2008-11-14 14:06:34
Name: Richard West
Location: Devon Uk
Number: 58
Dear All Answer a great demand in the light of Jollys imprisonment and the desire for people to help out with fines/costs etc, there is now a fund set up so that any well wishes wanting to make donations can do so. As we all are very aware, the activists not all go through great person sacrifice but financially as well. Any donation big or small is gratefully received,. This is how you can Donate; Cash or cheques can be paid into the fund at any Nationwide Building Society using the following details; FUND 4 JUSTICE NATIONWIDE BUILDING SOCIETY SORT CODE: 070093 ACC NO 33333334 REF 0428/704 096 488 PLEASE ENSURE ALL THE ABOVE DETAILS ARE ON ANY DONATION Supports oversea,s can send cheques direct to the treasurer, made out to FUND 4 JUSTICE. PLEASE CONTACT rwestf4j@googlemail.com for the address. Many thanks on behalf of Jolly and all of the brave lads sticking their necks on the line. We feel "WE STAND TOGETHER, SO JAIL ONE THEN YOU,LL HAVE TO JAIL US ALL" WATCH CLOSELY GUYS AND GIRLS WE,VE ONLY JUST STARTED !! THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT AND PLEASE ONLY GIVE WHAT YOU CAN SPARE, AND SPREAD THE WORD. Respectfully Richard West f4j www.newfathers4justice.com

Date: 2008-11-14 14:05:23
Name: andy
Location: NE
Number: 57
a political sentance for a dad of the system that will not allow dads to be dads. jolly you are an inspiration to us all.

Date: 2008-11-14 14:00:22
Name: Cathy
Location: Atlanta, GA
Number: 56
All of my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. HUGGS!

Date: 2008-11-14 13:42:26
Name: Arnie Hein
Location: Canada
Number: 55
Jolly, Thank you for your courage in standing up against this corrupt system. You took many personal risks to express the pain we share, and to stand for fathers and families. Again, thanks. All the best.

Date: 2008-11-14 11:59:04
Name: Allan Chinnery
Number: 54
We know what they have done and how much they were paid to do it. That why you trial was a show trial, to cover the former politcally motivated trial. Allan Chinnery Canadian in excile Storm the Bastile Free the prisoners burn the records

Date: 2008-11-14 11:44:30
Name: Roger Eldridge
Web: http://www.family-men.com
Location: Ireland
Number: 53
Jolly We have never met but in many ways we are comrades in arms. The National Mens Council of Ireland operate in Ireland in a completely different way to you and your group. We have focussed on showing that everything that is being done in so-called family Law is simply the State claiming it is a gender war between mothers and fathers when in reality it is actually the State refusing to recognise that the Family founded on Marriage is superior to it because the State wants to carry on with its 'parens patriae' position of being a "super" parent that can over-rule the real parents. In taking our route we win in law, in rationality and in claiming the moral highground. Our website contains an enormous amount of material and in particular I suggest you read the "About Us" section and our Reports, Submissions and Analyses. However we lose out on publicity so the people are unaware of the gains we have made and of how we can help them to protect their Family from State power and evil greedy solicitors. Your method has briliantly achieved the latter but when you have the limelight, because you don't have the knowledge we have, you are unable to tell the people precisiely how they are being cheated. God works in mysterious ways and could it be that He has given you and me this opportunity to get to know each other so that we can both of us better protect Families? I would like to believe so. I would be interested in communicating with you whilst you have so much free time on your hands so that our operations can be improved and we can pass on to you the fruits of ten years of painstaking research into the Law and its workings. I have been in prison myself after chaining myself to the chairs in the Circuit Court until they heard my case, albeit for one day and night and it was just a filthy blood stained holding cell with a hole in the floor to defecate and urinate in. What that showed to me was that I had been afraid of prison in ignorance. I believe that if one protects oneself from the dangers that it poses to one's health - they are real - and one has a clear conscience because you know you are there because of an injustice AGAINST YOUR FAMILY and therefore you haven't offended God the stay in prison can be a positive experience. I would like to be part of your positive experience so please contact me by whatever route you can if you wish to use this injustice against its perpetrators and make the world once more a place where it is safe to raise a Family in God's image. Please let me know if we can be of any assistance. The duty of a Father and Husband is to keep and safe-keep his Family and I salute you for your courage and commitment to that duty. (Please see below) God bless, Roger Eldridge Chairman, National Mens Council of Ireland, Knockvicar, Boyle, Co. Roscommon familymen@eircom.net www.family-men.com 07196-67138 086-8180146 *** The oldest human right defined in the history of English-speaking civilization is the right to challenge governmental power of arr

Date: 2008-11-14 10:50:06
Name: Mark Wood
Location: Australia / UK
Number: 52
You are a hero, in real life - not just in the costume, but all the way through. Only, you're a real hero. You are not forgotten. We are beside you, and good men and women will always be with you no matter when or where you are.

Date: 2008-11-14 10:29:58
Name: Mark Leishman
Location: Scotland
Number: 51
Jolly, throughout the years, you have been a thorn in the side of the government and the unfair digraceful gravy train that we call family court, you have highlighted the injustices of fathers rights and never lay down like a good little doggy when they've thrown everything at you.For this I am truelly humbled and gratefull.Stick in there mate! A true superhero!!! Mirin & Anya's Dad.

Date: 2008-11-14 10:01:24
Name: Tom W
Location: Cowichan Bay, BC, Canada
Number: 50
Dear Jolly One more thing... When things started getting bad for me I started playing guitar again... it does help and allows you to focus on something else when things are getting bad... and,... they CAN'T take it away from you! Tom

Date: 2008-11-14 09:50:43
Name: Tom W
Location: Cowichan Bay, BC, Canada
Number: 49
Dear Jolly I want to thank you for doing what you have done for all fathers. Although I hate to see you in the can for a simple protest, I want to remind you that many, many people around the world see the injustice in your imprisonment. many of us will write to you on this forum but many, many others will begin to see what exactly our protest is against... injustice in the courts against fathers and kids who need their dads! They will also see who it is that instigates this injustice! People like Harriett hateman (er monger) and her ilk. May they rot in hell! Keep your chin up man! Don't let them make you feel like you lost... you won a great victory today. With your imprisonment, the enemy has been identified and painted with florescent orange pain(so to speak) You are in an important place now and the eyes of the world are on you! Look them in the eye and say... "This is what I have been protesting... This injustice!" Thanks! Tom

Date: 2008-11-14 09:21:14
Name: Vern Mills
Location: Georgia USA
Number: 48
Hang in there mate, we are slowly but surely becoming an organized cohesive force to be reckoned. We've a long roe to how yet, but here in America we've made strong inroads in the law and won critical court battles (Woods v Shewry, Farnsworth, Bandusky, etc) in the fight to reestablish fathers as a meaningful role in their childrens lives. GR M/FR advocate, F4J 'Fatherless Day' Rally participant (Atlanta Georgia 2008) and all around pain in the gynocentry's arse!

Date: 2008-11-14 08:33:05
Name: nige ace
Location: bristol
Number: 47
THE SUPPORT KEEPS ON COMING FOR YOU JOLLY!! BIG DEMO BEING PLANNED!! KEEP YOUR SPIRITS UP NIGE

Date: 2008-11-14 07:39:04
Name: Silver Surfer
Location: battle of britain county england
Number: 46
Out of the gates of history and into legend you have walked/climbed All members of the Public are affected by the breakdown of the Family unit and society in a direct or indirect manner. Whether it's as a result of paying extra tax's to support the Family Courts process, a result of criminal activity created by the break down of families. Or maybe partner, friend or family member that is going through the process of the Family Court and suffering the hell that it is. It is manifested by the term "guilt by association" and that the facts do not actually matter. As you now as a father in reality you have only ever been "guilty of love". This should NOT be allowed to happen any longer, if the state encouraged the institution of fatherhood the WHOLE country would be far better of. Vast quantities of taxpayer's monies are being willfully wasted and Gordon Brown and his ministers and the "NEW LABOUR" party are turning a blind eye to this problem. It only takes a matter of seconds to do this and pass the message on; lets say we left no stone unturned when the histories of this struggle are written. Imagine is about reaching out to those people that do not now what we have experienced and engaging with them and persuade them that our course is worthy of a signature even if they cannot do any more. This has been going on for far too long and needs to be stopped so. Can you Imagine what is would be like for you, your children or your children's children Please sign and pass on to as many friends, family and others that you can, petitions.pm.gov.uk/CANYOU-IMAGINE petitions.number10.gov.uk/CAN-YOU-IMAGINE/

Date: 2008-11-14 06:27:04
Name: Dr Asif Suleman
Web: http://www.fathers-4-justice.co.za
Location: FATHERS 4 JUSTICE South Africa
Number: 45
In every cause there are those that go extra mile, those whose personal sacrifices surpasses what others at their sincerely committed maximum, are able to contribute, and those that become martyrs and heroes. Your sacrifice will be noted in the history of Fathers Rights movements around the world, as will the efforts of those before you and those who will follow, motivated by your heroic performance. Fathers 4 Justice South Africa salutes you and acknowledges your leading activist role. The right of peaceful non violent protest is a democratic one, and our voices shall never be muzzled by those who seek to legally abduct our children or to take on "god-like" rights of deciding on care and contact by responsible parents, by putting us on trial for wanting to be an active committed positive equal parent to our children. May your voice resonate well over any effort to deafen it, and all our children reap the rewards of equal parenting without PAS. My favourite prayer: God , grant me the serenity to acccept the things i can not change courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to know the difference. We can and will change family law inequity. Viva F4J [new/old /official & unofficial] Viva comrade Jolly we shall succeed,stay strong, stay positive, and enjoy the food ...[yuk!!!!...lol]. we still retain our sense of humour. Take care mate. Asif

Date: 2008-11-14 06:19:42
Name: Wes Wojtowicz
Number: 44
You have made a difference. The family court cancer will be removed and our children again will be able to be protected by their best defenders - committed and loving fathers.

Date: 2008-11-14 06:13:38
Name: Ian Wilson
Location: Australia
Number: 43
You have the support and prayers of all the men and women in Austalia who are struggling to brring justice to Family Law. The day will come when you will be recognisd a one of the great pioneers who struggled and paid the price so that children everywhere could get to grow up knowing and loving their fathers.

Date: 2008-11-14 05:55:33
Name: Alistair Nunn
Location: England/Sweden
Number: 42
Having dealt with the injustices of two countries who both claim to put childrens needs first, I would like to thank you for your efforts and sacrifice. My thoughts are with you.

Date: 2008-11-14 02:59:28
Name: Ray Bllumhorst
Location: Los Angeles
Number: 41
Stay strong. You are good man who's wronged by anti-father discrimination. Some day we will have - Equal Parenting For Dads. http://tinyurl.com/5dcerr

Date: 2008-11-14 02:26:38
Name: Rob Didcott
Location: Bristol
Number: 40
Jolly well done. Your bravery and incessant protests for the cause of Fathers everywhere around the world and respect for you is global as you can see from the posts so far. Knowing you, I think this will make you even more determined than ever. Use the rest to your advantage and our energies need to be used fighting the Feminazi Harriet Harman types who have so tried to crush our resolve for Justice. This battle may have been lost but we must and can still win the war.

Date: 2008-11-14 02:11:57
Name: JIM SHORT
Location: Longview, WA 98632
Number: 39
Jolly, I hope my message lifts your spirits as your efforts have eased the yoke of tryanny a bit. I have a passage that I would like to share with you of a couple that transcended the prision expirience. And it came to pass that Nephi and Lehi did proceed from thence to go to the land of Nephi. 21 And it came to pass that they were taken by an army of the Lamanites and cast into prison; yea, even in that same prison in which Ammon and his brethren were cast by the servants of Limhi. 22 And after they had been cast into prison many days without food, behold, they went forth into the prison to take them that they might slay them. 23 And it came to pass that Nephi and Lehi were encircled about as if by fire, even insomuch that they durst not lay their hands upon them for fear lest they should be burned. Nevertheless, Nephi and Lehi were not burned; and they were as standing in the midst of fire and were not burned. 24 And when they saw that they were encircled about with a pillar of fire, and that it burned them not, their hearts did take courage. 25 For they saw that the Lamanites durst not lay their hands upon them; neither durst they come near unto them, but stood as if they were struck dumb with amazement. 26 And it came to pass that Nephi and Lehi did stand forth and began to speak unto them, saying: Fear not, for behold, it is God that has shown unto you this marvelous thing, in the which is shown unto you that ye cannot lay your hands on us to slay us. 27 And behold, when they had said these words, the earth shook exceedingly, and the walls of the prison did shake as if they were about to tumble to the earth; but behold, they did not fall. And behold, they that were in the prison were Lamanites and Nephites who were dissenters. 28 And it came to pass that they were overshadowed with a cloud of darkness, and an awful solemn fear came upon them. 29 And it came to pass that there came a voice as if it were above the cloud of darkness, saying: Repent ye, repent ye, and seek no more to destroy my servants whom I have sent unto you to declare good tidings. 30 And it came to pass when they heard this voice, and beheld that it was not a voice of thunder, neither was it a voice of a great tumultuous noise, but behold, it was a still voice of perfect mildness, as if it had been a whisper, and it did pierce even to the very soul— 31 And notwithstanding the mildness of the voice, behold the earth shook exceedingly, and the walls of the prison trembled again, as if it were about to tumble to the earth; and behold the cloud of darkness, which had overshadowed them, did not disperse— 32 And behold the voice came again, saying: Repent ye, repent ye, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand; and seek no more to destroy my servants. And it came to pass that the earth shook again, and the walls trembled. 33 And also again the third time the voice came, and did speak unto them marvelous words which cannot be uttered by man; and the walls did tremble again, and the earth shook

Date: 2008-11-14 02:11:11
Name: jay
Location: florida
Number: 38
thank goodness someone has the integrity and courage to speak up and put their butt on the line for justice! thank you!

Date: 2008-11-14 01:39:28
Name: Bill Gerula
Web: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NWOFathers...
Location: Dryden ontario Canada
Number: 37
I just want to show support and say thank-you for the time you have been desicrated too for standing up for fathers rights-we are watching this with great interest.Lets hope this sparks the flame for thousands of other fathers to stand up for their rights to raise and love their children. sincerely; A fellow disident

Date: 2008-11-14 01:31:56
Name: Fred Schuler
Web: http://www.myspace.com/fs2006
Location: Florida
Number: 36
Jolly, thank you for your heroic efforts to expose the corrupt courts that violate a parent's constitutional right to care and companionship of thier own child. In the USA judges frequently commit 42 USC 1983 color of law violactions and other crimes, in totality, that define a Racketeering Influenced Corrput Organization. When corrupt, incompetant courts, lawyers, quacks and other 'service providers' conspire to drag out sham litigations, and create non-custodial parents to fuel the gravy train of funding that follows, extortion of parents and wire fraud of Government funds intended to help children and families is also involved , as the funds wasted on each case, hearing, placement, adoption, visitation or other bogus 'service' billed, do nothing to help children or parents, as these programs were intended, but only to enrich feindish lawyers and other 'providers' that use these services like weapons to further legal harassment and deliberate infliction of emotional distress on parents and children. These courts are the most prolific abuser of children on the planet, especially by parental alienation thru hideous programs invented by cronies of corrupt courts busily thieving money in thier own best interest. Since these hordes of scoundrals derive thier income from the trading of children, and snatching them from fit parents, it can also be viewed as a crime of human trafficking. Corrupt child custody proceedings often include kidnapping, extortion, perjury, false or altered documents, alterted court transcripts and recordings, witness harassment, witness tampering, and all forms of unethical and unprofessional conduct by quack witnesses, lawyers, and judges alike. You are certainly a super hero, and a political prisoner of a corrupt legal system.

Date: 2008-11-14 00:49:31
Name: Mark A. Durstewitz
Web: http://www.madmen-and-dreamers.com
Location: USA
Number: 35
Hi! Good for you. Don't let the bastards wear you down. MAD (my initials)

Date: 2008-11-14 00:42:15
Name: Ken Jones
Location: Washington, DC USA
Number: 34
I remember when you were here rousing the crowd at the Lincoln Memorial. You are truly a leader in our movement. It's too bad you have to pay such a high price for it. I pray that you will be released soon. Thanks for all that you've done.

Date: 2008-11-13 23:52:13
Name: geoffrey hibbert
Location: hants
Number: 33
jolly you are a very brave and popular activist for fathers i am with you all the way ok speak soon mate

Date: 2008-11-13 23:39:39
Name: Joakim Ramstedt
Web: http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseac...
Location: Sweden
Number: 32
Well done! We need more people like you who dare to stand up against the tyranny. I piss on the laws. I want justice! Keep fighting brother!! //Joakim Ramstedt Sweden

Date: 2008-11-13 22:58:53
Name: Dave White
Location: Southampton
Number: 31
Hello Jolly, Hope you're well mate.. Keep you' chin up, and we'll see you soon.. ;O) Dave White

Date: 2008-11-13 22:38:01
Name: RICHARD
Location: canada
Number: 30
to jolly, and jeremy swanson here in canada and all who fight for some sort of justice.

Date: 2008-11-13 22:28:53
Name: Katherine's Dad
Location: UK
Number: 29
Hi Jolly. Shocking treatment by the court. Keep your spirits up, well done on the protest, your stand should go down in history as the powers that be lashing out because they are losing the battle. Totally disproportionate response to bona fide protest. Well done, hope you are not having too bad a time. All the best KD

Date: 2008-11-13 22:19:42
Name: andy james
Location: Burnley
Number: 28
You are a very brave and popular activist for fathers. Standing up against the state oppressors is a noble thing. Take care and hope to see you back again soon!

Date: 2008-11-13 22:17:59
Name: Robin
Location: Australia
Number: 27
You bad bugger. Don't ever do it again. Seriously though, it takes a lot to climb above the petty minded bums, that are running the show at the moment. You have done it, you are a hero of our time. God bless you the file is in the loaf. Robin.

Date: 2008-11-13 22:14:07
Name: bw
Location: Alberta Canada
Number: 26
Thank you Jolly for all your efforts You are the reminder of what it takes to be a Man and Father in these dark and troubling times. Will be including you in our prayers. fellow Dad in pain bw

Date: 2008-11-13 22:05:00
Name: Mike Hunter
Location: Fort Myers, Florida USA
Number: 25
Thanks for standing up to the corrupt family court system! Your acts of civil disobedience, and the acts of other F4J protesters provide hope to the oppressed masses.

Date: 2008-11-13 21:47:21
Name: Nicholas Martin
Location: Australia
Number: 24
Jolly, commiserations, it is outrageous that you've been jailed. It's a good job we in the western democracies live in free countries. Yea right. Keep up the good fight, if you can be bothered. All the best, NM

Date: 2008-11-13 21:42:14
Name: nige ace
Location: BRISTOL
Number: 23
REMEMBER 3 THINGS WHEN DOING PORRIDGE. 1. BIDE YOUR TIME 2.KEEP YOUR NOSE CLEAN 3. DON'T LET THE BASTARDS GRIND YOU DOWN!!! WE'RE ALL THINKING OF YOU JOLLY!!! NIGE

Date: 2008-11-13 20:47:16
Name: William WAGENER
Web: http://www.OnSecondThought.tv
Location: California
Number: 22
You will always be a HERO in my mind and in the family book I re-write in the near future, Jolly Stanesby will tower over the media shills and Criminals who have usurped PUBLIC OFFICE. I'll post more of your interview with me today on YOU TUBE. You ARE a real life HERO with few equals. with f

Date: 2008-11-13 20:35:18
Name: Stan Rains
Number: 21
To Jolly in care of Jeremy Swanson, Jolly, Thank you from America. What one of us does in our own backyard makes a difference in the world. You have my gratitude. You have made a peaceful but firm statement. As I have written so many times before, it will only take a few hundred or even a few thousand dedicated men in this planet with billions of people to correct this feminist horror visited upon our children and men. May God Bless and Keep you. Stan Rains

Date: 2008-11-13 19:59:13
Name: Anthea Hodson
Location: Devon
Number: 20
there are lots of people who care and love you, this will just prove to you how many. love Anthea

Date: 2008-11-13 19:40:40
Name: Richard West
Location: Devon
Number: 19
Hi Chap No matter what they try and do, try and say, your made of stronger stuff than can ever be imagined. Thanks for your endless efforts and I,m proud to know mate. See you soon Bigboy Rich

Date: 2008-11-13 18:18:16
Name: Rickard
Location: Sweden - Växjö, Fathers activist
Number: 18
I´m with You! You are a HERO Jolly ! Remember: After separation, husband and wife no longer exist. Mother and father, exist for ever. Après séparation, épouse et mari n’existent plus. Père et mère, subsistent pour toujours. Após a separação, esposa e marido não existem mais. Pai e mãe, permanecem para sempre. Después de la separación la “esposa y marido” dejan de existir. Sin embargo el padre y la madre, permanecen, para siempre. Nach der Trennung gibt es keine Ehefrau und keinen Ehemann mehr. Aber Vater und Mutter existieren weiter, ein Leben lang.

Date: 2008-11-13 18:11:44
Name: Danilo velasquez
Location: Ottawa, Canada
Number: 17
We may know each other, we may never meet in our life time, but we both share something that no judges, no lawyers, no Exs and nobody can take away, our love for our children. My thoughts and my solidarity travel in the distance from Canada to whereever you might be. We never give up the fihgt !!

Date: 2008-11-13 17:52:50
Name: mike
Web: http://www.daddylovesyoucadeandcam.com/
Location: US
Number: 16
Thank you for doing what you feel is right to bring exposure to the horrible atrocities committed across the globe to children and families.

Date: 2008-11-13 17:52:11
Name: Jim Bailey - JimBWarrior
Web: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/rationshed
Location: North Shore City - New Zealand
Number: 15
Jolly - Many are watching from afar - Stay Strong our friend - Your effort is encouraging 1000's to stand - Righting the Wrongs of World-Wide Family Law and Social Policy toward Preferencial Equal Shared Parenting, even better HandsOnEqualParenting from Conception is by far the most valuable thing we do for the next generation - Mum, Dad and the Kids with all 4 Grands residing together or not must become the norm again

Date: 2008-11-13 17:49:14
Name: edward goldentooth
Location: london
Number: 14
Buggah, easy life is the boob, nice room, free meals "bog en suite", and when ya want something, just press the buzzer and screw will appear with a happy smiling face, you have my word i shall do all i can to help make hell break loose yeeeeehaaaaa, see ya soooon! and spread the word !!!

Date: 2008-11-13 17:48:36
Name: Ulf Andersson
Web: http://www.dads-r-us.se
Location: Sweden
Number: 13
Dear Jolly, fellow father´s rights activist! I want you to feel the support from your Swedish fellow fathers in the Father Rights Group, PappaRättsGruppen, http://www.dads-r-us.se Try to keep the spirit up and your head held high. Remember: without Fathers 4 Justice, and without New Fathers 4 Justice - there just wouldn´t be many father groups around the world. You guys have written new history and you will always be our heroes. Ulf Andersson Founder of and spokesman for PappaRättsGruppen, The Father´s Rights Group in Sweden

Date: 2008-11-13 17:42:29
Name: Glenn
Location: Canada
Number: 12
Thank you Mr. Stanesby your incredible fortitude for this cause is amazing and should go down in history as the man who led the wavering fight for Fathers' Rights to have a meaningful role in their children's lives. I was also in prison a couple of years ago because I wouldn't go away. Not that bad and I still won't go away! I hope you will be able to keep yourself busy in their and if the prisons in Britain are like the prisons in Canada the only trouble you will have is having the patience to play cards with crack addicts. Their attention span is definitely shot. Also, the system in GB probably allows for shortened sentences if you are share a cell with someone. Therefore the system will be letting out a drug dealer murderer or child molester earlier than they are sentence because they put you in a cell with them. Of course fathers put in jail are not privy to such leaniency?

Date: 2008-11-13 17:29:16
Name: Harry Crouch
Location: San Diego, California
Number: 11
Jolly, Across the Pond in the USA another one of our activists was recently sentenced to a prison term just short of three years. Having never been to "prison" he took with him a small backpack with his cell phone, Blackberry, and similar personal items. Needless to say he was not allowed to keep them. Before they booked him in they allowed him to call me and meet with him and pick up his remaining possessions, which will reside safely in my office for the next few years until his release. Like many men he had no criminal record or history of violence before his wife's false accusations started flying unconstrained. He was ordered by the court from his home, denied his children, and lost virtually everything he had sacrificed his entire adult life to achieve, including a very lucrative real estate business. It mattered not that an adulterous wife moved into the marital home her boyfriend. It mattered not that the lover and wife twice tried to run over him twice with a car. The courts had no concern for the wife's betrayals, lies, misrepresentations, false accusations, alienation of the children, falsification of legal documents, and perjury. In fact, as we know, the courts soundly believe her to be the better parent. It is this wayward woman, a treacherous wife and a woeful court system that drove this good man to prison, just like you perhaps and tens of thousands of other good well meaning men and fathers across the westernized world. Know that each minute you spend in jail is one minute closer to freedom for all of us. Take care please, we are the future and need you for the rest of us men, our children, and the women that love us. Harry Crouch Director California Men's Center President National Coalition for Men (NCFM - known as "Free Men") Co-Founder CRISPE

Date: 2008-11-13 17:02:12
Name: Matt Campbell
Web: http://news.mensactivism.org/
Location: USA
Number: 10
Think of how much reading you'll finally be able to get done! ;) That which does not kill you makes you stronger. You'll emerge STRONG, mate! Hang tough!

Date: 2008-11-13 16:51:37
Name: Brian Jones
Location: Southport Merseyside
Number: 9
Hang in their Mate. I am with you. Best Wishes and God Bless, Brian

Date: 2008-11-13 16:48:46
Name: Mike Murphy
Web: http://f4j-soo.blogspot.com/
Location: Sault Ste. Marie, ON Canada
Number: 8
Jolly: You are getting the "shaft" by an unjust legal system but your work is still inspiring to fathers world wide including this writer sitting some many thousands of KM's from your shores but can communicate at the speed of light. Therein lies our strength and no government can suppress us all. We will keep the activities of our colleagues, men and women, aunts and grandmothers all impacted by unjust family law systems available for all to see and read. Hang tough. Were with you in spirit. Maybe even some of your keepers at the jail have been impacted as well and will, at the least, make your stay at their facility fair. Mike Murphy Fathers Rights Activist F4J member, Canada

Date: 2008-11-13 16:38:56
Name: Larry Weeks
Location: langley bc canada
Number: 7
keep that chin up suppression of individual rights cannot stand up to us forever. Many are trying to change the situation you are in. Our governments need to realize we do not need them in our homes.

Date: 2008-11-13 15:26:04
Name: barry gaynor
Location: peterborough
Number: 6
If this message is going to be forwarded to you in prison, I imagine it’s going to get read to check for suitability by the prison govnor. So all the best in your nice new surroundings with nice guards to look after you day and night just in case you have the urge to take up squatters rights on Harman’s roof. I hear the purple phantom has ordered much purple paint just for Harman; she wants to camouflage her residence so no father can find it or is it the handprints wont show up so much. all the best Barry Gaynor

Date: 2008-11-13 14:32:19
Name: Marx
Web: http://antimisandry.com
Location: England, UK
Number: 5
Jolly, I hope you're surviving well and recruiting some good blokes, who no doubt are in for pathetic/minor crimes. As a guy who's locked-up for a 'good call', you will no doubt get plenty of support from those inside the system. The whole of our small website (antimisandry) sends it's support. Well done for standing up to the bullies we call government. That dirty animal, Harriet Harman, will have her comupance. It takes time, bud.

Date: 2008-11-13 14:25:45
Name: Stan
Number: 4
Hope the food is not too bad! Seriously you are raising attention to the plight so many men face. And your efforts and this case have been seen and discussed not just in the UK but in many parts of the world. Thanks for your work and sacrifices!! Stan, Connecticut, USA

Date: 2008-11-13 13:21:02
Name: Mark Harris
Location: Harmanville
Number: 3
Jolly, you know this was just the authorities getting revenge on you-that's why they let me walk when taking you down. There's a 'Free Jolly' campaign starting up, I've heard that slogan will be appearing on various building, bridges, etc VERY soon. Haha! If they keep this up there will be more of us being banged up than seeing our Kids, then the CSA will go broke! Chin up, you'll soon be home, Mark

Date: 2008-11-13 13:13:17
Name: nige ace
Location: clevedon
Number: 2
Hi mate, keep your chin up. will try and pay you a visit with mark soon. nige

Date: 2008-11-13 12:09:51
Name: New Fathers 4 Justice
Web: http://www.newfathers4justice.com/
Number: 1
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