I have met and heard the tragic stories of many parents. PA is a function, by and large, of a custodial ex-partner, although some alienation can start while the couple is still together.

This blog is a story of experiences and observations of dysfunctional Family Law (FLAW), an arena pitting parent against parent, with children as the prize. Due to the gender bias in Family Law, that I have observed, this Blog has evolved from a focus solely on PA to one of the broader Family/Children's Rights area and the impact of Feminist mythology on Canadian Jurisprudence and the Divorce Industry.

Monday, March 15, 2010



NANAIMO, BC (March 10 - 2010) – MARS BC, the Men's Affordable Resources Society of British Columbia and the Faculty of Social Sciences, Vancouver Island University is presenting a talk on domestic violence by Dr. Donald Dutton on March 19th at VIU's Nanaimo Campus.

Dr. Dutton is a Professor of Psychology at the University of British Columbia. His books include The Abusive Personality, The Domestic Assault of Women and Rethinking Domestic Violence. Dr. Dutton has served as an expert witness in several prominent legal cases involving domestic abuse and spousal homicide, including the O. J. Simpson case and more recently at the Oak Bay Inquest investigating the Peter Lee murders.

"In spite of a widening stream of statistical evidence to the contrary, the myth persists that it is women, and only women, who are the victims of intimate partner violence." says Dr. Dutton. "The stereotype of the male as a bully and the female as hapless victim is not supported by the data. Surveys from 1989 to 2007 keep finding the same thing; the most common form of domestic violence is two-way - both partners assault each other at about the same level of severity."

"The default demonization of one sex and victimization of the other is an insult to scientific integrity, a stumbling block to rehabilitation, a strong contributing factor in the ruining of many lives, and a shameful blot on our human rights record."

Dr. Dutton's talk on Domestic Violence is being held at Vancouver Island University in Nanaimo, Friday, March 19th from 7pm to 9pm, in the Student Union Building (Bldg 200), Room 203. Limited seating is available. A live internet webcast will be available – go to www.marsbc.com For more information phone: 250-716-1551 or email: info@marsbc.com .


The Men's Affordable Resources Society of British Columbia (MARS BC) is a non-profit organization dedicated to helping & representing individuals and service organizations which provide resources for fathers and men throughout British Columbia. We strive to create healthier communities through education, advocating and developing relevant tools for fathers and men to build stronger communities in BC.
For more information about the services of MARS BC call 250-716-1551 (extension 14) or log on to our website www.marsbc.com.


Kim Howland
Men's Affordable Resources Society of BC (MARS BC)
418D Fitzwilliam Street
Phone: 250-716-1551
Fax: 250-716-1557
Email: kim@marsbc.com
Website: www.marsbc.com


Anonymous said...

I have read some of your books on d.v. & thought your position was that women suffered badly from mens' far greater ability, (phys., emot'al & psych'cal)to inflict harm. Now you seem to say that women inflict the same harm, whi. astounds me! I was viciously assaulted by 6'6", 200 lb ex-partner (vs me, 5'2", 115 lb) & he convicted. He has controlled me legally 9 yrs (for house title & injury damages)thru superior finances! I wld never agree that women persecute men the way they are relentless in doing to us! Joan in Edm. AB

Anonymous said...

I have to admit that this position is unfounded. I am an incomplete quadriplegic from the abuses of my exhusband. He being the manager at the local hydro makes lots of money has the most expensive lawyer ( I cannot afford one) transposed his abusess onto me that he did to me ( apparently I self inflicted my spinal injuries--really now doctor) claimed that I was abusive to my children and the clincher that I was going to kill them if he got access and yes he claimed parental alienation. He alienated himself. I am now without my children and soon to be a quad that is homeless. I wish that I was abusive to him. Maybe then would the judicial system be as nice to me as they have been to him. Do not phone 911 it will be the end of your and your children's lives.

Doctor you are an idiot. Please he claimed himself to be the victim. Really I guess i threw myself through the wall and into doorframes. My young son could fly across the floor to land head first. That was his doing and mine I guess.

Men are psychologically more abusive than women due ot force, psyhcological predisposition, genetics, and physcial makeup.

WAKE UP doctor your a joke. Children are involved and you are endangering their lves. Who is abusive to who?? WAKE UP AND GIVE YOUR HEAD A SHAKE. Do you actually get funding for your research????????????

Anonymous said...

Last person that posted here calling the doctor names should look at themselves and say...."now I can see why men beat me, it's because I can't keep my mouth shut". You get what you truly deserve.