I have met and heard the tragic stories of many parents. PA is a function, by and large, of a custodial ex-partner, although some alienation can start while the couple is still together.

This blog is a story of experiences and observations of dysfunctional Family Law (FLAW), an arena pitting parent against parent, with children as the prize. Due to the gender bias in Family Law, that I have observed, this Blog has evolved from a focus solely on PA to one of the broader Family/Children's Rights area and the impact of Feminist mythology on Canadian Jurisprudence and the Divorce Industry.

Monday, November 10, 2008

Another Lesbian breakup and more alienation and not a man involved directly

Here is another Lesbian story that parallels the heterosexual breakups. In the case of Lesbians, however, they are obviously both females but yet PA still goes on, refusal to allow access goes on, and here's another case where the lesbian is no longer being a lesbian. I guess this is more common with females switching sides but I was always told you had to be born this way. I remain somewhat confused by this sexiderity (sexual dexterity) of women. My ex has been observed sleeping over at another females house and in her presence frequently over the past 3 plus years. Please Marilyn, when you get around to actually being able to lucidly communicate through your hatred of me, let me know how this sexuality shift occurs given you gave absolutely no hint of it during our 30 year relationship. Miller, the biological mother, seems to not only have repudiated being a lesbian but is "born again". My ex, however, is in the contradictory situation of being "born again" but not necessarily being completely faithful to her bible given her behaviour, particularly the one involving fraud. Nevertheless, I invite any and all feminists to explain to me, given neither one is male, how it parallels relationships with men yet the man is always the mean violent untrustworthy villain. Despite my repeated invitations to help explain this phenomena to a very confused man, not knowing his place in the feminist world view, I want to know what you think! I require elucidation. The other interesting component is the gullibility of so called counsellors. An alienated child will tell anyone anything the brainwasher wants and when fully indoctrinated the child will believe it is her views not the alienator. Wednesday October 29, 2008 See today's LifeSiteNews stories Lisa Miller Held in Contempt of Court for Refusing Child Visitation to Former Lesbian Lover Judge schedules more visitation dates despite evidence of damage to Miller’s daughter By Matthew Cullinan Hoffman Vermont, October 28, 2008 (LifeSiteNews.com) – Lisa Miller, a woman who has repudiated the lesbian lifestyle, was held in contempt of court yesterday for refusing to allow child visitation for her former lesbian lover, Janet Jenkins. Miller, 40, says she decided to discontinue the court-ordered visitations following accounts by her six-year-old daughter, Isabella, of being forced to bathe naked with Jenkins, 44. Miller also reports that her daughter expressed the desire to commit suicide, and experienced other disturbing behavioral changes following visits with Jenkins. Although the judge deferred any determination regarding punishment, he ordered new visitation dates for Jenkins during the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays, despite being informed of sworn testimony from counselors and other witnesses containing evidence that the visits are damaging to the child. Steven Crampton, Miller’s attorney for the case, told LifeSiteNews, “We have affidavits from two different licensed counselors and an affidavit from a school teacher” as well as witnesses among the child’s Sunday school teachers, indicating that the child has suffered traumatic effects from the visits. Crampton said that the judge will appoint a special attorney for Isabella in response to the accusations, while continuing to require visitation. Despite the fact that Jenkins has no biological nor adoptive relationship with Isabella Miller, Vermont courts have ruled that Jenkins has parental rights stemming from the fact that she was joined in a civil union with the girl’s mother at the time she was impregnated through artificial insemination. Although Miller lives in Virginia, which has a strict law denying the recognition of same sex unions from other states, the courts there have repeatedly upheld the Vermont custody rulings. When asked on the stand if she would permit visits by Jenkins in the future, Miller declined to say, according to her attorney. Previous LifeSiteNews Coverage: Mother to Face Contempt Charges for Refusing Custody of Daughter to Former Lesbian Lover http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2008/oct/08102708.html Exclusive Interview with Lisa Miller, Ex-Lesbian Fighting for Custody of Own Child against “Civil Union” Partner http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2008/oct/08102707.html Ex-Lesbian Mother Loses Appeal to Keep Former Civil Union Partner Away from Daughter http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2008/jun/08061105.html Vermont Supreme Court Upholds Lesbian's Visitation Rights against Natural Mother's Wishes http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2008/mar/08032804.html