I have met and heard the tragic stories of many parents. PA is a function, by and large, of a custodial ex-partner, although some alienation can start while the couple is still together.

This blog is a story of experiences and observations of dysfunctional Family Law (FLAW), an arena pitting parent against parent, with children as the prize. Due to the gender bias in Family Law, that I have observed, this Blog has evolved from a focus solely on PA to one of the broader Family/Children's Rights area and the impact of Feminist mythology on Canadian Jurisprudence and the Divorce Industry.

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

From Ireland a good letter to the editor about the hypocrisy in the EU Women's Movement

The same hypocrisy is evident in most 3rd wave feminist movements. We don't call them Lifeboat Feminists for nothing by gar.MJM


Fathers will have a voice at last

AS a separated father, I was surprised but delighted to read the letter 'Why are working mothers blamed?' by Myria Vassiliadou, Secretary General of the European Women's Lobby (Irish Independent October 7).

On its website, the European Women's Lobby claims to be the largest umbrella organisations of women's associations in the EU and includes, among its national member organisations, the National Women's Council of Ireland. The European Women's Lobby aims to promote women's rights and equality between women and men in Europe, including "equality between women and men in all areas of public and private life".

In her letter, Myria Vassiliadou asks if it is "surely time to recognise that if children of working parents suffer this is the joint and equal concern and responsibility of the father and the mother?"

Hopefully, her question will be heard by the judges of our family law courts who, according to the recent reports by Carol Coulter, grant joint custody to more than 80pc of couples who divorce or separate but with "the main care and residence to the mother", thereby granting responsibility to the mother and financial servitude to the father.

Hopefully, her question will be heard by the Adoption Board, which is bound by law to "consult with the father before reaching a decision on an adoption application" but failed to do so, according to the article which was in the Irish Independent on October 7.

Hopefully, her question will be heard by all the teachers in schools, doctors in hospitals and health services throughout the country that accept the consent of the mother in all areas where consent is required, despite the fact that the consent of fathers, as legal guardians, is required jointly when consent is required.

Fathers rights' groups have been lobbying unsuccessfully for equality in parenting responsibilities for years.

Maybe now, when the European Women's Lobby gets involved in the issue, it might actually happen!

Name and address with editor http://www.independent.ie/opinion/letters/fathers-will-have-a-voice-at-last-1912464.html

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